If you need that girl to offer time, then show her just how special choice she is always. Jesus mentioned something about not worrying about money, I your exact quote but made something like, "God supplies all the birds, don't you think so He makes for you in addition?". https://Web.archive.org/web/2/http://kraidruzei.ru/go/url=http://aiki-evolution.jp/yy-board/yybbs.cgi?list=thread